Community guidelines
litnear works because everyone here follows the same short list of rules. Break them and you're out.
Adults only. No exceptions.
Every member must be 18 or older. Age is checked at signup, and any account that misrepresents age, or solicits anyone underage, is banned permanently and reported where the law requires it.
Consent
- A match means you can talk. Everything past that is agreed to, not assumed.
- Hard limits listed on a profile are non-negotiable. Pushing them gets you banned.
- No unsolicited explicit photos. Ask first. That's what the secret album is for.
Nudity
Adult nudity is allowed on litnear, in the places where the person seeing it has chosen to.
- Secret album: nudity and explicit photos and videos are welcome. Only the matches you share it with can see it.
- Chat: nudes are fine once the other person has said yes. Unsolicited explicit photos are not.
- Profile photos: explicit photos are allowed. Our filter spots them and shows them blurred to everyone, with “May contain nudity · tap to view”, so nobody sees one without choosing to. Your main photo should still show your face or who you are, not just explicit shots. Members can switch the blur off for themselves in Settings.
- Profile videos, forum posts, event and group covers: these aren't blurred, so no genitals and no sex acts. Shirtless, underwear and suggestive is fine.
- Only ever post yourself, or people who agreed to be posted. Everyone shown must be 18 or older.
Be real
- Your photos are you, recent enough to be recognised at the door.
- State what you're actually looking for. Don't waste people's time.
- One account per person. No couples posing as singles. If you're a couple, say so on your profile.
Respect the room
- No harassment, hate, or shaming of bodies, kinks, orientations, or anything else. That includes kink-shaming.
- No commercial activity: no selling, advertising, or solicitation of any kind.
- What happens in chat stays in chat. Sharing someone's photos or messages outside litnear is a ban.
Enforcement
Reports are reviewed by humans. Accounts reported by multiple different members are hidden automatically pending review. Depending on how serious it is we hide, warn, or ban, and consent violations are an immediate ban.