Privacy policy

What we keep, who can see it, and how to delete it. Last updated 9 November 2026.

The short version

• We never show your email, birthdate or exact location to anyone.
• Your photos are only for signed-in members, never public links.
• We don't sell your data, and advertisers get nothing about you.
• You can download or delete everything yourself in Settings.

What we keep

• Your account. Email, birthdate (to check you're 18+) and a password, stored only in scrambled form. If you sign in with Google or Apple, we get your email from them and nothing else.
• Your profile. Whatever you choose to add: name, handle, photos, videos, what you're into and your limits.
• Your location. Rounded to about a kilometre before we save it. It's used to work out how far away people are.
• Your messages. Chats, forum posts and events you create.

Messages and uploads are encrypted when stored.

What other members see

• Your name, handle, age in years, photos and the profile fields you filled in.
• How far away you are, in whole kilometres, and a rough direction like “north-east”. Never your address or exact spot.
• Whether you're online. You can switch this off in Settings.
• Your kinks and limits, unless you limit them to matches in Settings.

Your photos

• Only signed-in members can see them. There are no public links.
• Chat photos are only for the two people in that chat.
• Your private album is only for matches you let in. You can take that back any time.
• You can blur any photo until you choose to show it to a match.
• We remove location and camera details from every photo you upload.

Age check

Australia's Online Safety Act requires us to keep nudity and adult content from under-18s. So the first time you uncover a nude photo or watch a video, we check your age once. Everything else works without it. You choose how:

• Quick face check. Your camera takes three still pictures while you turn your head. Our own server checks it's a real person and estimates your age. The pictures are never stored: they're held in memory for a few seconds, never saved, never seen by a person and never shared. We keep only that you passed.
• Didit. An outside service checks a selfie or your ID and tells us only yes or no. We ask them to delete the check straight away.
• A person checks your ID. You send a photo of yourself holding your ID. An admin looks at it, and it's deleted the moment they decide.

When a chat ends

If either of you unmatches or blocks, the chat disappears for both of you straight away. We keep a sealed copy for 30 days so either of you can still report what happened. Only a moderator looking at a report can open it. Then it's deleted.

Automatic checks

• Nudity filter. Software on our own server checks photos so it can blur nudity until you tap. No person looks, and the photos aren't sent anywhere.
• Photo verification. If you send a selfie to verify your photos, only a moderator sees it, and it's deleted once they decide.
• Live location. If you share it in a chat, only that match sees it. It stops after an hour and is then deleted.

Other companies we use

• Cloudflare carries traffic to the site and stores photos and backups.
• Amazon sends our emails.
• OpenStreetMap turns a place name into a location. We send it the place, never who you are.
• Didit, only if you pick it for your age check.
• GIPHY supplies chat GIFs through our server, so it never sees you.

If you came from an ad

We keep the ad's click code for 30 days. If you sign up, we tell the ad network that click became a signup. That's all they get: no email, no profile, nothing you do here.

Download or delete your data

Download: Settings → Account → Download my data gives you a copy of everything that's yours.

Delete: Settings → Account → Delete account removes your profile, photos and matches for good. The only exception is your chats: like any ended chat, a sealed copy is kept for 30 days in case of a report, then deleted.